It’s no surprise that I’m more passionate than most when it comes to body acceptance. And yes, I believe it cuts both ways — skinny shaming is just as wrong as fat shaming. But it’s not lost on me that the average woman in this country wears a size 12-14 and yet we rarely see the mainstream media including her, much less celebrating her.
That’s why the Ashley Graham SI cover is such big news for all of us: it’s taken what many mistakingly considered a niche demographic and thrust it in the limelight (the fact that it’s wearing a very cute and very teeny bikini doesn’t hurt, of course). For the first time, so many women who felt previously ignored by the media finally can feel like they are being seen and included.
I’m thrilled Ashley’s cover has resonated with so many ladies and sparked so much mainstream talk around whether normal conventions of beauty are actually all that “normal.” Yes, it’s nuts that it’s taken until now to get this conversation going, but the fact that it’s being addressed at this level indicates a broader interest in and acceptance of plus that simply didn’t exist a few years ago (sorry, Cheryl).
Make no mistake — as significant as Ashley’s cover is, it doesn’t mean everything in the plus size category is finally hunky dory. In fact, it’s pretty much the opposite. What Ashley’s cover does is shed light on just how underrepresented curvy women are in media today — we need more! Luckily it is all starting to change, and thanks in part to SI people are starting to notice.
With so much change underway, it’s an exciting time to be a part of the #BeautyBeyondSize movement. As plus size women continue to break barriers and spill into the mainstream, there are sure to be many more Ashleys to come. In the meantime, here are some of the movers and shakers to know who are working hard to pave the way for plus size ladies today 🙂
What: A sought-after style blogger, she recently added designer to her résumé with a killer Swimsuits for All collaboration.
Why: Curvy girls love pattern and color too, but it’s been sorely missing from the swim category. True to her name, Gabi’s collection of swimwear is fresh, chic and addressing a giant black hole in plus size swimwear.
Who: Becca Thorpe
What: A former plus size model, current model agent and creator of the plus size division at Muse.
Why: Models need advocates too, and Becca is that and then some. One of the first to recognize the modeling industry would need to evolve, she’s bringing beauties like Candice and Denise to a modeling campaign near you.
Who: Nadia Aboulhosn